Newby, TTC 4yrs, septate uterus, unexplained/adopt?

Hi there,
I have recently found this website through the resolved website which has been my bible since i Have been diagnosed with infertility.
I never would of thought I would be dealing with this older sister is expecting her 10th child. I come from a family that is very, very fertile...I guess there has to be one in the family that is messed up and that is me. I have numerous surgeries, and basically now I am tagged as unexplained, which I don't know what is worse, having something wrong or not knowing what is wrong. we have tossed the idea around of adoption and just wondering if anyone out there has some information that they would like to share with me about their experience. I have been on drugs, and did the iui's although I am definitely not going to do IVF....I have read to much to confirm that if I have nothing wrong with me, then that isn't the right route to take. Let me know if anyone can help. thanks

Newby, TTC 4yrs, septate uterus, unexplained/adopt?

Hi there. Unexplained is just frustrating, isn't it? I suggest you go back in the earlier posts and read about herbal remedies. There is acupuncture and herbal remedies to try for awhile, if you have time. You didn't say how old you are. Also, I mentioned in earlier posts about eating all organic and very healthy, taking lots of supplements etc. Your body needs to be in top condition to produce a child. Some of us just aren't lucky enough to get pregnant without going to great lengths. IVF should be your very last resort after you have tried everything else. Give each method enough time for your body to adapt to it before giving up. These things take time. I know we want it to be on our time table, but it doesn't work that way for some of us. Good Luck!

Newby, TTC 4yrs, septate uterus, unexplained/adopt?

We're also looking to adopt, but really haven't done any concrete research. Good luck!

Newby, TTC 4yrs, septate uterus, unexplained/adopt?

Make sure you have tried every option before either adopting or IVF. Try alternative medicine and meditation, like prayer. I know it sound silly, but spiritual disconnection can prevent pregnancy.

Although it might seem to

Although it might seem to just go for adoption make sure all avenues have been tried.

I agree. All avenues need to

I agree. All avenues need to be tried. Adoption isn't just about getting a new child, it's about producing a developing a wonderful environment. We too have thought about adoption and it really is so hard to know which cours of action is the best.

We've been thinking about

We've been thinking about adoption for some time and never could go through with it. We just feel that we need to go through every approach (except egg donors and sperm donors) in order to mitigate future emotional and psychological issues.


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