Moral implications of Third Party Reproduction

What do you guys think of possible moral or at least complications in bringing up a child that is one of the partner's genetically but not the other. Let's face it genetically if a woman uses a donor egg, it is not her biological baby as much as she feels it. Of course most women I think are OK with this since they gave birth, but what about a man's wife who needs another man's sperm to become pregnant. I know husbands want to make their wives happy, but I think men are always more affected by these things. What do you think.

I think so. When my husband's

I think so. When my husband's sperm count was thought to be low I asked him what he thought about a sperm donor and he go very agitated. He said he really felt like it would be like I was cheating on him. I realized that men are just sensitive to these things and we as loving wives need to be concerned about their feelings as well.

I here you, but when a couple

I here you, but when a couple really wants a baby we're ready to look into almost anything and even though I understand that there will be uneasiness the child is as close to ours as we would get. It's better than adoption that child isn't even birthed by the mother.


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